Song of Solomon 8:7: the request to be worn as a seal (8:6 in most Bibles)
7Set me like a seal upon your heart, like a seal upon your arm. For love is strong, like death, and envy is enduring, like hell: their lamps are made of fire and flames.
The last image in this edition is a lamp, not an ember. A lamp is a made thing, lit on purpose and kept burning, which is a different claim about love than a heap of coals.
Short answer
In Song of Solomon 8:7 one lover asks to be set like a seal on the heart and on the arm of the other, and grounds the request by comparing love to death, envy to hell, and both to fire. It is the most quoted definition of love in the Bible.
- Written by
- Raphael Navarro Schmitt
- Reviewed by
- Maria Luisa Navarro Schmitt
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- Reading time
- 3 min read
The Song is a book of scenes: gardens, streets at night, doors, spices. It almost never explains what is happening. It shows.
This verse is the exception. Here the poem stops showing and states what love is, with three comparisons in a row. That is why it is the passage most often lifted out of the book, and the one that depends least on the scenes around it.
If the reference looks unfamiliar, that is the numbering. This edition splits the previous verse differently from most Bibles, so the whole of chapter 8 runs one number ahead of the count you may know. It is the same line, in the same place in the poem.
Where this verse appears
Chapter 8 closes the book, and this edition labels who is speaking. The label standing over this stretch places the words in the groom’s mouth, addressed to the bride — an assignment other editions make differently, and one worth noticing before deciding whose voice you hear.
The verse immediately after completes the argument: no quantity of water can put this out, no river can carry it off, and anyone who tried to buy it with everything his house contained would be laughed out of the room.
From there the subject changes. Relatives arrive talking about a younger sister, and the book ends with one last exchange between the two. The definition sits surrounded by ordinary conversation, which is where it works best.
What it says
A seal, in that world, was the object that authenticated documents. It is not jewellery: it is the mark that says whose a thing is. Asking to be used as a seal is asking to be what the other person signs with.
The two places named form a pair. The heart is what nobody sees and the arm is what everybody does — private attachment and public declaration. The request covers both, and either one alone would have asked for less.
The comparisons escalate, and the second is harsher in this edition than most readers expect. Envy is called enduring, like hell: not cruel, but unwilling to end. What is being said is that this attachment does not wear off, which is a compliment and a warning in one clause.
The last image is the one that repays attention. Fire is described here as lamps — objects made, filled and lit deliberately, and tended if they are to keep burning. That is a different picture from coals left over from something that already burned, and it puts the work of keeping love alight back in human hands.
What to do with it today
If you are going to use the line at a wedding, read the three comparisons slowly, one at a time. Run together they sound lovely; given pauses they are slightly frightening, and the fright is the point.
Outside a wedding there is a practical question. In your closest ties, do you accept being a seal on the arm and not only on the heart? The visible half of commitment is the one that usually gets postponed.
A prayer to carry with you
Lord, teach me to love at this weight: without dodging what it costs, and without turning care into control. Let what I feel inside show on the outside too. Amen.